Connecting to home with applesauce

As kid and adult I’ve lived and travelled near and far, and what’s always grounded me is family. Both first family and ohana chosen family, they continue to connect me to who I really am at heart. Holidays put a point on it whether I’m in the middle of 40 extended family members or alone. For much of my adult life, folks have come to my family home to gather in love and companionship, through celebrations and losses, over an array of good food and surrounded by laughs and music.

Today we are scattered across a continent and ocean, and still ducking viruses to keep healthy, I’ll likely eat alone on Easter (thanks for the invites local family and friends!). And as I have for every holiday I’ve hosted for nearly 50 years I’m making applesauce as a touchstone just like Nana. Today it’s Pink Lady apples as Macintoshes are scarce in the spring, a little added sugar, a kiss of lemon, and clear Oregon water.

I’m home.

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